“I want video games, I want a new cell phone, I want a new laptop ... Gimmie, gimmie, gimmie!” Sound familiar? It might to some parents and teachers, especially as the holiday season is in full swing. Child experts say kids are likely to cultivate a strong taste for consumerism when parents aren’t careful with gift-giving. To help families contend with the “gimmies”— here are some tips and information for you to share with parents and families this holiday season.
Bah Humbug!
It’s never too early to demonstrate generosity. Teach kids that giving is more important than getting. The holidays are a good time for families to go through toy chests and closets for items to donate to a church, family shelter, or other charitable community organization.
It’s a wonderful life
It may sound corny, but the best gift parents can give their children is their time. Kids become lonely, depressed, and angry when parents give them material items instead of their attention.
It’s beginning to feel a lot like ... a family
Most people don’t remember receiving an expensive gift. Doing simple things as a family—like telling stories, having dinner together, or singing along to holiday tunes—leaves a lasting impression.
Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer
Lead by example. It’s hard to talk credibly to children about wanting too much if parents are excessive in their shopping. Materialistic teens tend to be more self-centered and usually have more problems with anxiety, physical ailments, and drug and alcohol abuse.
You’ll shoot your eye out!
The teen years are a ripe time to teach consumerism and responsibility. Help children sort out what advertisements are trying to do.
Of course, teachers don`t expect gifts, but many parents want to recognize the hard work of their children`s teachers. Here’s what several teachers that PTA interviewed have on their holiday list, including a few gift ideas we thought would get a good grade or at least a laugh:
Simple and heartfelt
Teachers ranked thank-you cards from parents as their favorite holiday teacher gift idea, and edible treats as their least favorite.
For the classroom
"The knick-knack gifts, such as coffee mugs and little figurines, while appreciated, really build up over the years," said Tim, a middle school teacher in Indiana. Classroom materials are also great.
Can`t go wrong with a gift certificate.
"Gift certificates to stores like Barnes & Noble, Office Depot, or Starbucks may not be the most creative gifts, but they are practical and appreciated," said Angela, a high school teacher in Illinois.
Give them a wake up call.
Teachers might need something extra after sleeping late during the holiday break. If so, there are puzzle alarm clocks on the market that shoot their pieces into the air and refuse to stop bleating until someone reassembles them. We advise that the recipient of this item must have a good sense of humor.
Take a load off, literally.
Check out the Mini Jack Remote Control Forklift that navigates desktop clutter in three speeds, plus reverse. The teacher who gives out lots of homework or lets assignments pile up may get a kick out of this kind of novelty.
Editor`s Note: For additional gifts for teachers, check out www.teacherappreciation.com!