Conflicts happen to everyone ... everywhere ... everyday. Unfortunately, mismanaged conflicts often escalate into violence, sometimes even death. However, escalation of conflicts, as well as the ensuing violence, may be significantly reduced by teaching conflict management skills.

Here are five key tips to teach students to help them manage conflicts appropriately:

1. Set ground rules. Agreeing to listen to each other without interruptions will lead to better understanding.

2. Have each person tell their side of the story. You can better understand what the other person may be upset about and clear up any misunderstandings.

3. Find common ground. It is okay to agree that you disagree - everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Try to find at least one thing you like about each other.

4. Brainstorm possible solutions. Even if you agree to stay away from each other, at least there will be less confrontation.

5. Reach an agreement and abide by the terms agreed upon. Write up an agreement in which you both agree to follow.

(Tips developed by National Youth Violence Prevention Week Youth Advisory Committee)

Next month, during the week of March 26-30, schools around the country will be participating in National Youth Violence Prevention Week. Each day of the week will highlight a different strategy for creating safer schools and communities. On Wednesday, March 28th, students, educators, parents, and communities will focus on the role of conflict resolution in preventing and reducing youth violence. By enabling young people to deal with conflict in a productive way, they will learn how to de-escalate potentially violent situations before they get out of control. If you would like to participate in this event or wish to find activity ideas and hands-on tools for building conflict management skills, visit www.violencepreventionweek.org.